Technology is a beautiful thing but it’s also our worst destruction. Now with technology people are always looking for the next best thing or wondering if the other 5 people they matched with online is better than the person they’re out on a date with. No one is taking the time to get to know one person because it’s so easy to find new people online. I think people need to invest more time in one person. Go on the second date. You can’t find out who someone is on one date.
When it comes to dating, I am learning something new every single day. I just read about “Gray Ratio” when you’re texting with someone. I literally can’t even. I am so happy to be sharing this with all of you! The “Gray Ratio” is the amount of texts coming in as the ones going out. Are your blue boxes showing up a lot more than the gray boxes? Unless you’re a green person and in that case it pops up with green boxes. I don’t want to be the girl sending a bunch of messages in a row with no responses or one word answers back. We are all wanting the upper hand and until now I never even thought of this.
I wanted to do a blog to all those single moms out there singling. I am not only surviving as a single mom but I am thriving! It’s really liberating to be a single woman and able to hold down a career, chase my kids all over the place and still find the time to date. I think it’s so important not to get lost in just being a mom or label myself as a single mom. I think I’m a double mom! I do double the work! Of course our kids are the most important and precious things in our worlds but if you don’t put yourself out there, we could very well wake up years from now alone.
Get out and enjoy the sun San Diego! There is so much to do in San Diego besides taking a girl out for dinner or a coffee date. I personally think the dates where you are doing an “activity” are the best dates. It gets people out of their comfort zones and you can see another side of them that you wouldn’t at a restaurant. I did a quick list of things that I personally would enjoy to do on a date and most of them are free! Now I just need some guys to ask me out! Take notes boys…