Have you ever heard that saying “Your energy introduces you before you even speak”? I just heard this and I can’t stop thinking about it. I haven’t heard a saying in so long that seems so true. First impressions are everything and people can feel those positive vibes, as I like to call them. I always say what energy you put out there you get back. This comes true when you are dating. When someone is irritated, scared, shy, happy, sad etc. the people around you can feel it. Misery loves company and life is too short to be anything but happy. Here are some tips to stay happy which will in no doubt help you attract the right people in your life.
Positive thoughts equals a positive life: I believe everything always works out and guess what it always does! No matter how bad of a situation you are in everything always works out, stay positive.
Go with the flow: You can’t plan for everything. Things come up and things change so stay flexible.
One positive thought in the morning can change your whole day: Wake up and tell yourself one positive thing about your life or make a goal for the day and this will start your day on track.
When you look at the good in every situation it’s hard to have a bad day: I try to find something positive out of a negative situation. It can always be worse so I use that saying and think of how it could be worse it makes the situation a little less bad.
Stop caring what people think of you: No one is perfect and we all make mistakes. Be confident in who you are and stop worrying what people think of you.
Be the type of person you want to meet: Would you hang out with you? I strive every day to be a better version of myself. People are moving so fast these days they stop and do the little things like say “Thank you” to your barista or keep the door open for someone walk behind you. Small things add up to big things.
Confidence is attractive: There is no doubt that being confident and happy is attractive and people will want to be around you. Stop looking over the fence and find your inner confidence because you are special, you are you.